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Healing from Affairs with Tammy Nelson
Moving Past the Trauma of Betrayal and Infidelity
Wednesday, April 19th, 9:00am - 5:00pm CT
$219.99 Value
Can't attend live? Register anyway for 14-day free access to the training!
Earn up to 6 CE hours and be one of the first to get access to Tammy’s soon-to-be-released Integrative Relational Therapy (IRT) Certification Program! Register for more information.
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Join Tammy Nelson for step-by-step modules filled with videos and case examples that illustrate the varieties of affairs – as well as ways you can offer healing and erotic recovery. You’ll get unique insight into topics including narcissism, second adolescence, parallel love relationships, online affairs, pornography, sex addiction and emotional infidelity and their effect on sexuality, intimacy and emotional connection.

 
Part 1: Affair recovery in Integrative Relationship Therapy
  • Why do people cheat?
  • The types of Affairs that present in treatment
  • What is Infidelity? Three Parts of an affair
  • Countertransference and the role of the third in treatment
  • What is betrayal trauma?
  • What is collusion and bias and secondary gain?
  • Individual integrative therapy

Part 2: Three stages of Affair recovery treatment
  • Crisis/realization, Insight/reevaluate, Vision/renegotiate
  • What is erotic recovery? Pleasure heals trauma
  • Treating the cheating partner
  • Video case example
  • Erotic shutdown
  • What is second adolescence?
  • Coping with reactivity
  • Lean in lean out – the dilemma of ending an affair
Part 3: Creating long term sustainable relationship agreements
  • Trust, safety and the trap of forgiveness
  • Implicit vs explicit monogamy
  • Decrease rumination/blame/projection
  • Micro and Macro behaviors in treatment
  • Video case example
  • Handling Dishonesty
  • Vulnerability cycle
  • Long Term Monogamy Plan
  • Future Treatment Recommendations
*On-Demand replay of the event will be available 24 hours after the event ends.
Live Free Virtual Training
Psychotherapy Networker's
Healing from Affairs with Tammy Nelson
Moving Past the Trauma of Betrayal and Infidelity
Wednesday, April 19th, 9:00am - 5:00pm CT
$219.99 Value
Can't attend live? Register anyway for 14-day free access to the training!
Earn up to 6 CE hours and be one of the first to get access to Tammy’s soon-to-be-released Integrative Relational Therapy (IRT) Certification Program! Register for more information.
See what leading therapy innovators are saying about Tammy Nelson's groundbreaking work!
 

" At a time when life can feel so murky and chaotic, along comes Tammy Nelson with guidance that is crisp and clear as it is hopeful and realistic. "
— Esther Perel, NYT bestselling author world-renowned expert on working with relationships

" Tammy Nelson is a master therapist who can help you find hope and opportunity, even in the multiple crises caused by an affair. "
— Gina Ogden, PhD, LMFT, author of The Return of Desire and The Heart & Soul of Sex

" I can think of no better guide to lead couples through the journey of intimacy than Tammy Nelson. "
— Ian Kerner, PhD, sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First

" The New Monogamy sets Tammy Nelson apart from many other therapists. She doesn't believe affairs simply involve a pathetic victim and an arrogant perpetrator―and that's why she can actually help couples navigate this difficult challenge. "
— Marty Klein, PhD, author of Sexual Intelligence

" Many clinicians refer out for sex therapy, but Tammy Nelson provides wonderful resources that will help all clinicians feel better prepared to address sex, sexuality and pleasure with clients. She is a gift to our field, she is a pioneer in the work of understanding couple sexuality and ethical non-monogamy. "
— Brittany Edge, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

 

MEET THE PRESENTER
 
Tammy Nelson

Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist in private practice, a relationship expert and international speaker, an author, a faculty member and teacher with a Doctorate in Philosophy in Clinical Sexology. She is a Board Certified Sexologist, a Diplomate of the American Board of Sexologists, a Licensed Professional Counselor, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Registered Art Therapist, a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor, a Certified Imago Relationship therapist and an Advanced Imago Clinician.

Dr. Tammy is the author of several books including Open Monogamy: A Guide to Co-Creating Your Ideal Relationship Agreement (2021), Integrative Sex & Couples Therapy: A Therapist's Guide to New and Innovative Approaches (2020), The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity (2013), Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together (2008), and What's Eating You?: A Workbook for Anorexia and Bulimia (2004). She is also a TEDx speaker, host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex, and Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute.

Click here for information about Tammy Nelson.


 
Frequently Asked Questions
No catch. Over the last few years, thanks to the generosity of our expert speakers and the support of therapists like you, we've had the amazing opportunity to provide professional training to more therapists than ever.

Tammy Nelson is one of today’s most in-demand and knowledgeable relationship experts, and that’s why we’ve asked her to join us for this exclusive free webinar where she’ll provide her latest insights to help therapists throughout the world.
Psychotherapy Networker is a non-profit educational organization. For over 46 years, we have featured the leading researchers, innovators, and developers in the field through our award-winning magazine, CE trainings, and our annual Symposium.

Our focus is on telling the stories of psychotherapy and being a place where clinicians of all licenses and backgrounds who practice psychotherapy can keep up on what's happening in the field, hear captivating stories from colleagues on what's really happening in their practices, learn through CE trainings from the best in the field, and enjoy the most celebrated annual gathering of psychotherapists in the world each year in March in Washington, D.C.!
Yes! The full recording package (that includes up to XX self-study CE hours) is just $79.99, offered ONLY for those who register here until the end of the webinar on April 19th. After that, the price is set at $219.99. Just register today above with your name and email, then click the "Self Study" CE button that includes unlimited access to all the recordings, plus self-study CE credits.
Just register today above with your name and email, then click the "LIVE CE" button on the next page to purchase your credit package for just $49.99 (discounted from $249) — only available for those who register here and purchase before the end of the webinar.
Yes! Just register above and then click the "Self Study" CE button on the next page and purchase the recording package. You'll get unlimited access to the workshop and be able to earn self-study CE at any time in the future.
Yes! This webinar is completely LIVE, and you'll be able to engage with Tammy Nelson throughout each presentation.
Yes! You get unlimited replay access for 14 days after the workshop. Replays will be available within the week after the workshop ends and will be in the same place where the live sessions took place in your account portal.
No! Whether you work with an individual or both partners, you'll learn important insight and skills you can use right away to begin the healing process for partners who’ve experienced infidelity.
This program is the first step to becoming a Certified Integrative Relational Therapist through an all-new program offered by The Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and Evergreen Certifications.

By attending this free training, you’ll have already completed the first module of the program and will get access to an exclusive discount for the first cohort.


Live Free Virtual Training
Psychotherapy Networker's
Healing from Affairs with Tammy Nelson
Moving Past the Trauma of Betrayal and Infidelity
Wednesday, April 19th, 9:00am - 5:00pm CT
$219.99 Value
Can't attend live? Register anyway for 14-day free access to the training!
Earn up to 6 CE hours and be one of the first to get access to Tammy’s soon-to-be-released Integrative Relational Therapy (IRT) Certification Program! Register for more information.
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